I grabbed all those points by my own personal positive and negative experience.I won’t say that mine is perfect, definitely there are many drawbacks not only for me for everyone in this world. A relationship became perfect once they avoid the rules and regulations and free up the minds.
LOVE COVER UP MULTITUDE OF SINS, NOTHING BEYOND LOVE. If true love is there, everything follows eventually.No special preparation needed, no need to be careful in your relationship, just open up everything to each other.
I would be glad, if you share some more points from your own experience.
1) Pay attention to your partner's opinions
2) Ask and share questions openly rather assumptions.
3) Be a supporter and motivator for each other.
4) Equality , avoid gender discrimination
5) Don't store any doubts, speak up openly
6) Use WE instead of I
7) Proper communications
8)Avoid misunderstanding through conversations
9) Apologize quickly
10)Take away ego, pride and Jealousy
11) Honor each other
12) While fighting,take initiative to resolve
13) Share your feelings and emotions
14) Share when you're feeling down
15)Avoid hidden thoughts instead open up thoroughly
16)Love each other the most
17)Reduce the expectations otherwise it will become an investment.
18) Avoid privacy conversation with others, discuss everything with eachother.
19) No boundaries
20) Frankness
21) Reduce formalities
22) Accept just the way he / she is ...and accept good suggestions for self development.
23) Compromise each other
24) Never pull anyone to your relationship.
25) Go for a walk, share the interests, outdoor activities and entertainments
26) Be good friends
27) Avoid inferiority and superiority complex
28) If your partner is ready to listen, never bring the fights in front of others.
29) Reduce arguments.
30) Spend more time with รจach other.
31) Taking up responsibilities equally
32) Never split work for husband and wife.
33) Accept each ones weakness and compensate each other.
34) Maintain strong bond
35) Give confidence to each other, never discourage.
36) Share your bad thoughts, troubles everything.
37) Enjoy every love quarrels, small and beautiful moments of togetherness
38) Accept the mistakes and share with each other.
39) Discuss your memories, past, future,
ambitions, dreams, strength and weaknesses
40)Faith, trust and understanding- Love keeps no record of wrongs.
ยฉ๏ธ Athira Aparna
Really good points! Thanks!
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Most welcome..you can also add some points if I missed any!
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I think it is pretty good. I can’t think of any off of the top of my head, but I definitely think you covered most of the important ones.
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Thanks alot for the response.I’m glad to know that you liked it!
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Sure did!
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Thanks again
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Those are really great points! Thanks!
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Thank you Jyothi..you can also suggest or add some!
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All great points, Athira. This one here, for me, is one of the most important. “13) Share your feelings and emotions.” Very important.๐
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Yes Jeff..Relationships are not complicated, the way we approach to each relationships gets complicated.Whatever it may be..mother, father, brother, sister, wife, husband, friendship for everything there should be space acc to me.
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Agreed. ๐
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Very good! Great relationships take hard work!
dwight
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Thanks for visiting and following my blog! You are very talented as a writer and artist. And now you’re giving sound advice. My thought: Figure out how each of you learn and communicate, visually or auditorily, That will help you understand some of the miscommunication between the two of you.
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Thank you for the visiting my blog Anne…
I just figure out some common points only..It’s not completely into my personal.Yeah your point makes a sense..Keep in touch Anne..๐
Nice to meet you here๐๐ป
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