Dowry

Dowry Dowry…this system is still there..I still remembering at my school time,in social studies book, learned about something related with dowry prohibition so it was abolished years ago by the law itself.The pathetic fact is…its still rules in women life.Many families encourages the dowry and used a word ‘GIFT’ as an ornamentation.I’m talking on those who are financial stable,they are ready to spend all their amount for their daughters or sons marriage ( its completely based on the family interest and their dreams- I just like share the encouragement of dowry system)

I found certain things related with dowry

  • Its a word that has the power to receive negativity.
  • Its spoils the trust in relationship
  • An evil term.

Its all the personal interest to give the amount, property ,wealth….And of course, the wealth of the family will automatically carry forward to the next generation.One who stand by their own feet is something different.We can also term him/her as a self independent person who earns for their own living.Wife is submissive to her husband but both have an equal role to build their home into a beautiful family.A space that they can share anything and everything with lots of lovee rather than arguing eachother for perishable things.

Relation+Ships= Relationships

Its easy to destroy but difficult to maintain, difficult in the sense..When we talks openly without hiding anything there starts a beautiful relationship- its a matter of TRUTH in RELATIONSHIP. Another thing is commitment to each other, whatever might be the circumstances maintaining a life long commitment is a difficult fact since its needs lots of compromise, adjustments,understanding,sincerity more over needs lots and lots of Love.Love bears everything- there is no place for ego, quarrel, misunderstanding, wrongs, lies, boasts, jealous but its always treats with lots of patience.

At the same time once the trust lost in relationships its hard to regain..Its supports each of them with trust.Every relationship protects with honesty it never support the lies.Once we starts to support lies then very soon we can see the breaking down of relationships…

#Faith#Hope#Love