For a better relationship

I grabbed all those points by my own personal positive and negative experience.I won’t say that mine is perfect, definitely there are many drawbacks not only for me for everyone in this world. A relationship became perfect once they avoid the rules and regulations and free up the minds.

LOVE COVER UP MULTITUDE OF SINS, NOTHING BEYOND LOVE. If true love is there, everything follows eventually.No special preparation needed, no need to be careful in your relationship, just open up everything to each other.

I would be glad, if you share some more points from your own experience.

1) Pay attention to your partner's opinions
2) Ask and share questions openly rather assumptions.
3) Be a supporter and motivator for each other.
4) Equality , avoid gender discrimination
5) Don't store any doubts, speak up openly
6) Use WE instead of I
7) Proper communications
8)Avoid misunderstanding through conversations
9) Apologize quickly
10)Take away ego, pride and Jealousy
11) Honor each other
12) While fighting,take initiative to resolve
13) Share your feelings and emotions
14) Share when you're feeling down
15)Avoid hidden thoughts instead open up thoroughly
16)Love each other the most
17)Reduce the expectations otherwise it will become an investment.
18) Avoid privacy conversation with others, discuss everything with eachother.
19) No boundaries
20) Frankness
21) Reduce formalities
22) Accept just the way he / she is ...and accept good suggestions for self development.
23) Compromise each other
24) Never pull anyone to your relationship.
25) Go for a walk, share the interests, outdoor activities and entertainments
26) Be good friends
27) Avoid inferiority and superiority complex
28) If your partner is ready to listen, never bring the fights in front of others.
29) Reduce arguments.
30) Spend more time with èach other.
31) Taking up responsibilities equally
32) Never split work for husband and wife.
33) Accept each ones weakness and compensate each other.
34) Maintain strong bond
35) Give confidence to each other, never discourage.
36) Share your bad thoughts, troubles everything.
37) Enjoy every love quarrels, small and beautiful moments of togetherness
38) Accept the mistakes and share with each other.
39) Discuss your memories, past, future,
ambitions, dreams, strength and weaknesses
40)Faith, trust and understanding- Love keeps no record of wrongs.

©️ Athira Aparna



Yesterday my blogmate nominated me for Libester Award.Thank you so much Soni..

She is one of my favorite blogger, who always motivates others through her writings..🙂

The point is..the second time I got nominated for the award. I haven’t accepted the nominations yet😊 I’m not deserving it..What I’am writing here👇

A girl who writes untidily here and there,
A platform she shares the emotions,
Loves to see the notifications daily
A visit to the next doors ,scanning going on
Likes, enjoys commentings and comments
Checking followers and following friends 
Smiles and pass a smile, visualising faces
Empathise on each word that comes before
Knowing she will be there on sometimes 

Thank you for reading🙂
©️Athira Aparna


I’m not a psychologist to write something about human minds deeply 🙂 eventhough I felt that my mind have a very hyper energy to control all works in my body and also it has a greater influence on my emotions too ( The same is for all humans but I would like to use MY here 🙂 ).

I’m a person who hears a lot of negatives and positives at the same time.My opinion is like, we respect other people words its comes out of different can be out of love, anger, frustration, sorrow, ego anything.But the importance comes to the receipent – how I / we receive those or accept those into the mind.

When I listen to a person, if its really a thoughtful process going on, accept those words into the mind. Its a positive activity.On the other side, If a person communicates the negatives,its involves a serious loose talk,its better to put a full stop there since through that communication only distracts the mind and it also make us weak in all sense.

Its not possible to read or capture what in the mind of the opposite person to whom we are communicating,so its well and good to keep our mind refreshed and just share good things to others and receive the useful things too, sometimes they will share all unnecessary matters but no issues, we just cling to good and look for the goodness on others, it will definitely helps us to stay focused in the routes.

So I personally felt its really hard to maintain an optimistic attitude.The society mostly focuses to discouragement rather than encouragement.Its hard to keep a distance for all those, its better to delete and refresh the mind and store better stuffs for the future welfare.

In a nutshell

  • Don’t allow your emotions to rule the mind.
  • Yourselves a self motivator and cherish others.
  • Just delete all unwanted thoughts and communications.Dont allow your mind to store or receive negative stuffs.
  • Dont get involve into loose talk.Its too dangerous and offensive.
  • Stay focused and get into a serious thoughtful and meaningful process.
  • Have a well balanced and a good growth for mindset.