Why heart so sad?

Why discouraged?
Why heart so sad?

Discouraged is the feeling that mix up with loneliness, and also I experienced it when we are striving for something scarcely.But instead of being discouraged we have to encouraged by ourselves.Life might not be same as always, there is always some up and down, when we goes up never be over confident in the stengths or the achievements and also at the times of downs never be discouraged in the weaknessess.Take the DIS away from discouragement and place COURAGE in self.People always tedious you with negativities.When we are into negative circles it will negatively influence your thoughts and habits too.I felt that its very facile to become pessimist but its harder to be an optimist.

Discouragement is something that leads you into impossibilities so its something like a decaying process.Never allow this process should be held in me, I always looks for the Hope, there is no life without Hope.Never allow anyone to grab your happiness but you can freely distribute it to others without any charge.Try to face all situations with a cute smile.Start a day with a smile and we can see the difference.

#Hope#Love#Happiness#possibilities#optimism#courage#positive

#Hopelessness#hatred#sorrow#impossibilities#pessimism#discouragement#negative

See the difference while reading two divisions

©️Athira2020 All Rights Reserved

Stand by convictions

Stand by my convictions, is it critical
Yes it seems...being tolerant to situations
Not a quick moving life,Struggles for upright
Maturity to receive the thoughts and ideas
Analyzing with my personal convictions
Gave me a better result than asking with someone
Standing for what is right , from wrongs
My right is not familiar for others
Still Confidence in my rights, gives me a way
Courage to withstand and Influence
If I put two legs in two boats, will sink soon
Rather stand strong with two legs in one place
Ask for the wisdom of the choice
Choice is chosen, Honest to what I chosen
Finds a unicorn inside, its not visible with others
Strong beliefs gives a better vision and understanding
Standing up for conviction is a Commitment
It determines my acts accordingly
and follows my values and motivates to do next
Stand firm gives me a definition to life
Produce a fruitful and meaningful actions
Being myself gives a self satisfaction
Truth upon truth and keep a distance with false.
Stand upright
You won't put head down

Copyright©️Athira 2020


For a better relationship

I grabbed all those points by my own personal positive and negative experience.I won’t say that mine is perfect, definitely there are many drawbacks not only for me for everyone in this world. A relationship became perfect once they avoid the rules and regulations and free up the minds.

LOVE COVER UP MULTITUDE OF SINS, NOTHING BEYOND LOVE. If true love is there, everything follows eventually.No special preparation needed, no need to be careful in your relationship, just open up everything to each other.

I would be glad, if you share some more points from your own experience.

1) Pay attention to your partner's opinions
2) Ask and share questions openly rather assumptions.
3) Be a supporter and motivator for each other.
4) Equality , avoid gender discrimination
5) Don't store any doubts, speak up openly
6) Use WE instead of I
7) Proper communications
8)Avoid misunderstanding through conversations
9) Apologize quickly
10)Take away ego, pride and Jealousy
11) Honor each other
12) While fighting,take initiative to resolve
13) Share your feelings and emotions
14) Share when you're feeling down
15)Avoid hidden thoughts instead open up thoroughly
16)Love each other the most
17)Reduce the expectations otherwise it will become an investment.
18) Avoid privacy conversation with others, discuss everything with eachother.
19) No boundaries
20) Frankness
21) Reduce formalities
22) Accept just the way he / she is ...and accept good suggestions for self development.
23) Compromise each other
24) Never pull anyone to your relationship.
25) Go for a walk, share the interests, outdoor activities and entertainments
26) Be good friends
27) Avoid inferiority and superiority complex
28) If your partner is ready to listen, never bring the fights in front of others.
29) Reduce arguments.
30) Spend more time with èach other.
31) Taking up responsibilities equally
32) Never split work for husband and wife.
33) Accept each ones weakness and compensate each other.
34) Maintain strong bond
35) Give confidence to each other, never discourage.
36) Share your bad thoughts, troubles everything.
37) Enjoy every love quarrels, small and beautiful moments of togetherness
38) Accept the mistakes and share with each other.
39) Discuss your memories, past, future,
ambitions, dreams, strength and weaknesses
40)Faith, trust and understanding- Love keeps no record of wrongs.


©️ Athira Aparna


	

The Liebster Award🎖

First of all, I would like to share my sincere gratitude to almighty who made me to start this blog. I also like to share my thanks to Soni’s thoughts https://sonibindaas571181659.wordpress.com/ one who nominated me for this award. I also welcome all of you to visit her blog.

Soni’s rapid fire round😊

1) At what time you love the most to write and why?

There is no particular time for me to write. I always wish to do 24*7 if possible.

2)When did you first start your writings?

If the question regarding with my blogging – it was on 10th March 2019 @ 6:28 PM. Apart from blogging I used to write from my schooling.

3)Do you love reading books? which are your fav books?

Yes, I loved reading but right now I’m little bit away from the habit. It’s difficult to point out books but still I will mention some from my memory – Pride and Prejudice, Jane Eyre, Macbeth, Malgudi days and so on…

4)Do you have any suggestions for other beginner bloggers?

Try to write from your heart than mind.

5)What was your aim when you were a kid and did it change with time or still same?

Becoming a good human being.I hope so

6)Whats your passion and why?

I loves everything I do and do everything I loves. I’m very much passionate to all things I do.

7)What are your tips for a good and fit health?

It’s completely depends upon each person body language and their standard of living. I suggest to eat homely food maximum or if its not possible prefer healthy foods and avoid junk foods. Drink water sufficiently, natural products for skin care routine,focus of hygiene,dancing / yoga / walking are the mantras for fitness. Based on the current situation- wash all vegetables with vinegar,salt and turmeric powder. Wash your hands with sanitizers after the public contacts, use masks : cover your nose and mouth together with mask, I noticed many covers their mouth only 🙂 Moreover try to avoid maximum public contacts now.

8)Do you advise for Gym or home workout?

I don’t prefer advise to anyone rather suggestions. It’s completely depends upon the personal choice of life style.

9)If you would not be a blogger, then what other activity you would have been into?

Now also I continue all my other activities along with my blogging, so if I would not be a blogger… I will continue others the same way.

10)Who do you get ideas to write posts?

My writings based on my faith, experience and surroundings. From myself.

11)Do you keep any expectations to be famous when writing something or just prefer to write your heart out and leave everything on others to judge??

I never wish to receive any rewards or recognition in my life, As I mentioned before, I write everything from my heart and never focused on judgement and I’m no one to judge anyone.In my entire writings, the post EVLIN was the one I felt to share it with everyone.I’m writings its for my friend.

I personally don’t wish to nominate any particular blog-mate instead I wish to nominate all my fellow bloggers together.

My Questions to all my fellow bloggers

  1. Rate your writings out of five and with reason
  2. Define the meaning of life and your purpose
  3. Your role model and why you choose the person
  4. Your humanitarian values to the society
  5. Your priorities in life
  6. What do you value in relationships
  7. Your concerns to this present world
  8. Are you a successful blogger and why you chosen this platform
  9. Whats your contribution for others
  10. Empathy or sympathy , which one you opt and why
  11. Self Introduction or self assessment

THANK YOU ALL FOR READING … PLEASE PARTICIPATE, INVITING ALL MY DEAR BLOGGERS 👏🙂🏆

Life Jacket

On water will wear a life jacket
But for life which jacket is choosen

Life jacket a precaution on water.In life’s journey what precautions and safety measures should be taken.Nothing saves us except the Creator. Everything is well calculated, well-noted,appointed, happens at the right time. Wear the jacket of Faith and face the future without fear.

Athira💙

Swim against the tide

Greetings to all my dear friends,

Hope everyone are fine!!!Today I felt to share you an idiom, its something like ‘Swimming against the tide’, actually its a hard task but not an impossible one.For so many years, my ears are familiar with those terms.Its something about my attitude or approach to certain things.I always wish to focus on impossibilities rather than possibilities.I always wish to accept and take challenges and risk in my life rather than easy going methods.But infact,my dear ones tries me to pull down from my initiatives but I never do 🙂

PC : Googled

Its not because they never loved me, its only because they loved me sooo much and very much over concerned about me and my life.At the same time,they are lit bit sensitive tooo…But I felt to handle the situations more practically, I can’t achieve anything in my life without a risk..One way or another, risk took part in activities, its a matter upon how we accept the risk?Risk requires sacrifices, courage, determination, confidence, integrity and so on..Its very easy for a dead fish to swim according to the flow but alive fish should always tries to flow opposite to the tide inorder to sustain.

PC :Googled

I uncompromised to the words that I gave to others.And to maintain my words with others is the huge challenge I faced during this short time.Its like a mental persecution, discouragement by others, made me alone and all ill treatments made me to encourage or motivate by myself.My faith was (is) completely unacceptable or undigestable for people around me.

People wants me to follow what they are following!!They want me to do what they are doing!! But I cannot, Since I already found a truth in me.He give me a conscience to act accordingly.We are not here to do all common things, we can also do some uncommon things…

Amazed…

An another day,lit bit irritated ( reasons will be revealed on coming days) actually it was not irritated but my environment and certain situations made me to…But again as usual; He made me relaxed in His presence.Today one of my blogger who used to follow my posts regularly -asked me.I haven’t seen any post today??But I didn’t found that question as a strange one..Felt like an usual one.But after sometimes… my mind dragged me into yesterday’s talk that I had with one person,actually he asked me…why are you like this?Why are you doing this?why can’t you change yourselves? even-though its not a big deal…but I noticed or else my mind stored some words from that conversation.Its COMPARISON, MASTERPIECE,REJECTIONS,ACCEPTANCE.

COMPARISON : Why people are always trying to compare one with another??How wonderful they are ??Most of them are trying to be like others..it might be their friends, role models,TV stars, peer groups or some others..But I just want to point out one thing.YOU ARE UNIQUE…None can replace yourselves with others..no substitutes…You have your own qualities\ capabilities that you are freely received from one above.Just go to the mirror and look at yourselves, how beautiful you are!! 🙂

MASTERPIECE : You are God’s masterpiece. You have your own uniqueness and your own intentions\ purposes in your life.You are here for your own destiny and its entirely different from others who surrounds you..

REJECTIONS : In your journey , definitely you have to face many many rejections and discouragements…But its doesn’t matter, Don’t lose your heart.

ACCEPTANCE : As I mentioned before, when everyone rejects you one is there to accepts you.Sometimes you won’t find someone to listen your words but you can find a person who is always ready to listen …Don’t try to follow others since your path is something different and unique from others, its exclusively selected and purchased specially for you…So walk with faith, remind that you had been already accepted and loved…. THE WAY YOU ARE so please don’t wait for other’s acceptance.Let they accept you as they way you are……………

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Choices have Consequences !!!
Definitely your choices will leads to consequences. Don’t bother about the end result or output; it may not be satisfactory up to your expectations. Your choice is different from others ,sometimes you have to face lots of consequences but still its necessary to accept the consequences in proper way. You are actually learning new things from your consequences and that experience will makes you more stronger if you accept its in right sense.

Be truthful on your choices and be faithful to your commitments and be firm in your decisions.