Tag: Friends

#Scenario 31

“You’re just a girl with limitations.“

The word GIRL itself powerful. I like to give a positive outlook to the phrase. Whenever you hear a negative, try to make it a positive one. I reframed the sentence into YOU ARE A GIRL WITHOUT LIMITATIONS, that’s it problem resolved.

It’s just a statement with various contexts. I felt to communicate with you. It’s nothing related to personal since I’m blessed to have such wonderful parents who never used the above sentence ever in my entire life. However, I guess one way or another, we all used to hear this statement. Let us have an open discussion👍🏻

I’m waiting to exchange thoughts with you in the comment box…✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻

©️Athira 2021 | All Rights Reserved

For a better relationship

I grabbed all those points by my own personal positive and negative experience.I won’t say that mine is perfect, definitely there are many drawbacks not only for me for everyone in this world. A relationship became perfect once they avoid the rules and regulations and free up the minds.

LOVE COVER UP MULTITUDE OF SINS, NOTHING BEYOND LOVE. If true love is there, everything follows eventually.No special preparation needed, no need to be careful in your relationship, just open up everything to each other.

I would be glad, if you share some more points from your own experience.

1) Pay attention to your partner's opinions
2) Ask and share questions openly rather assumptions.
3) Be a supporter and motivator for each other.
4) Equality , avoid gender discrimination 
5) Don't store any doubts, speak up openly
6) Use WE instead of I
7) Proper communications
8)Avoid misunderstanding through conversations
9) Apologize quickly
10)Take away ego, pride and Jealousy
11) Honor each other
12) While fighting,take initiative to resolve
13) Share your feelings and emotions
14) Share when you're feeling down
15)Avoid hidden thoughts instead open up thoroughly
16)Love each other the most
17)Reduce the expectations otherwise it will become an investment.
18) Avoid privacy conversation with others, discuss everything with eachother.
19) No boundaries
20) Frankness
21) Reduce formalities
22) Accept just the way he / she is ...and accept good suggestions for self development.
23) Compromise each other
24) Never pull anyone to your relationship.
25) Go for a walk, share the interests, outdoor activities and entertainments
26) Be good friends
27) Avoid inferiority and superiority complex
28) If your partner is ready to listen, never bring the fights in front of others.
29) Reduce arguments.
30) Spend more time with èach other.
31) Taking up responsibilities equally
32) Never split work for husband and wife.
33) Accept each ones weakness and compensate each other.
34) Maintain strong bond
35) Give confidence to each other, never discourage.
36) Share your bad thoughts, troubles everything.
37) Enjoy every love quarrels, small and beautiful moments of togetherness
38) Accept the mistakes and share with each other.
39) Discuss your memories, past, future,
ambitions, dreams, strength and weaknesses
40)Faith, trust and understanding- Love keeps no record of wrongs.


©️ Athira Aparna


	


	



			
				


			

			
A Love Story
		
	
	

		

Based on a true story !





A strong relationship. A well settled man got married to a girl. After their marriage, he realized that she has some mental issues and not mentally fit. He faced many insults, many comments from the society by her weird behavior. His parents, relatives, friends and the whole world suggested to divorce her. even so he was not ready to divorce, he continued a life with her.Despite of all problems, a family with three children now. Many asked him why you are not ready to leave her? Can’t you divorce her and marry another girl?? For all those questions he has only one answer ” I LOVE HER , SHE IS MY WIFE , I WON’T LEAVE HER FOR ANY CAUSE ” 





-Athira Aparna