For a better relationship

I grabbed all those points by my own personal positive and negative experience.I won’t say that mine is perfect, definitely there are many drawbacks not only for me for everyone in this world. A relationship became perfect once they avoid the rules and regulations and free up the minds.

LOVE COVER UP MULTITUDE OF SINS, NOTHING BEYOND LOVE. If true love is there, everything follows eventually.No special preparation needed, no need to be careful in your relationship, just open up everything to each other.

I would be glad, if you share some more points from your own experience.

1) Pay attention to your partner's opinions
2) Ask and share questions openly rather assumptions.
3) Be a supporter and motivator for each other.
4) Equality , avoid gender discrimination 
5) Don't store any doubts, speak up openly
6) Use WE instead of I
7) Proper communications
8)Avoid misunderstanding through conversations
9) Apologize quickly
10)Take away ego, pride and Jealousy
11) Honor each other
12) While fighting,take initiative to resolve
13) Share your feelings and emotions
14) Share when you're feeling down
15)Avoid hidden thoughts instead open up thoroughly
16)Love each other the most
17)Reduce the expectations otherwise it will become an investment.
18) Avoid privacy conversation with others, discuss everything with eachother.
19) No boundaries
20) Frankness
21) Reduce formalities
22) Accept just the way he / she is ...and accept good suggestions for self development.
23) Compromise each other
24) Never pull anyone to your relationship.
25) Go for a walk, share the interests, outdoor activities and entertainments
26) Be good friends
27) Avoid inferiority and superiority complex
28) If your partner is ready to listen, never bring the fights in front of others.
29) Reduce arguments.
30) Spend more time with èach other.
31) Taking up responsibilities equally
32) Never split work for husband and wife.
33) Accept each ones weakness and compensate each other.
34) Maintain strong bond
35) Give confidence to each other, never discourage.
36) Share your bad thoughts, troubles everything.
37) Enjoy every love quarrels, small and beautiful moments of togetherness
38) Accept the mistakes and share with each other.
39) Discuss your memories, past, future,
ambitions, dreams, strength and weaknesses
40)Faith, trust and understanding- Love keeps no record of wrongs.


©️ Athira Praveen


			

A Love Story

Based on a true story !

A strong relationship. A well settled man got married to a girl. After their marriage, he realized that she has some mental issues and not mentally fit. He faced many insults, many comments from the society by her weird behavior. His parents, relatives, friends and the whole world suggested to divorce her. even so he was not ready to divorce, he continued a life with her.Despite of all problems, a family with three children now. Many asked him why you are not ready to leave her? Can’t you divorce her and marry another girl?? For all those questions he has only one answer ” I LOVE HER , SHE IS MY WIFE , I WON’T LEAVE HER FOR ANY CAUSE ”

-Athira Praveen

Sleep Awake

Image Courtesy : Google Image

On bed , eyes closed opened again

Laid side to side, up and down

Back tracked incidents and the probabilities

Pondered past , present and future

Thinking bells awakened, started ringing

Surpressed emotions jumped out

Family and friends zoomed in

About the people who walked in and out

Eyelids slowly closed opened again

Thank you for reading🙏

©️Athira Praveen

The Liebster Award🎖

First of all, I would like to share my sincere gratitude to almighty who made me to start this blog. I also like to share my thanks to Soni’s thoughts https://sonibindaas571181659.wordpress.com/ one who nominated me for this award. I also welcome all of you to visit her blog.

Soni’s rapid fire round😊

1) At what time you love the most to write and why?

There is no particular time for me to write. I always wish to do 24*7 if possible.

2)When did you first start your writings?

If the question regarding with my blogging – it was on 10th March 2019 @ 6:28 PM. Apart from blogging I used to write from my schooling.

3)Do you love reading books? which are your fav books?

Yes, I loved reading but right now I’m little bit away from the habit. It’s difficult to point out books but still I will mention some from my memory – Pride and Prejudice, Jane Eyre, Macbeth, Malgudi days and so on…

4)Do you have any suggestions for other beginner bloggers?

Try to write from your heart than mind.

5)What was your aim when you were a kid and did it change with time or still same?

Becoming a good human being.I hope so

6)Whats your passion and why?

I loves everything I do and do everything I loves. I’m very much passionate to all things I do.

7)What are your tips for a good and fit health?

It’s completely depends upon each person body language and their standard of living. I suggest to eat homely food maximum or if its not possible prefer healthy foods and avoid junk foods. Drink water sufficiently, natural products for skin care routine,focus of hygiene,dancing / yoga / walking are the mantras for fitness. Based on the current situation- wash all vegetables with vinegar,salt and turmeric powder. Wash your hands with sanitizers after the public contacts, use masks : cover your nose and mouth together with mask, I noticed many covers their mouth only 🙂 Moreover try to avoid maximum public contacts now.

8)Do you advise for Gym or home workout?

I don’t prefer advise to anyone rather suggestions. It’s completely depends upon the personal choice of life style.

9)If you would not be a blogger, then what other activity you would have been into?

Now also I continue all my other activities along with my blogging, so if I would not be a blogger… I will continue others the same way.

10)Who do you get ideas to write posts?

My writings based on my faith, experience and surroundings. From myself.

11)Do you keep any expectations to be famous when writing something or just prefer to write your heart out and leave everything on others to judge??

I never wish to receive any rewards or recognition in my life, As I mentioned before, I write everything from my heart and never focused on judgement and I’m no one to judge anyone.In my entire writings, the post EVLIN was the one I felt to share it with everyone.I’m writings its for my friend.

I personally don’t wish to nominate any particular blog-mate instead I wish to nominate all my fellow bloggers together.

My Questions to all my fellow bloggers

  1. Rate your writings out of five and with reason
  2. Define the meaning of life and your purpose
  3. Your role model and why you choose the person
  4. Your humanitarian values to the society
  5. Your priorities in life
  6. What do you value in relationships
  7. Your concerns to this present world
  8. Are you a successful blogger and why you chosen this platform
  9. Whats your contribution for others
  10. Empathy or sympathy , which one you opt and why
  11. Self Introduction or self assessment

THANK YOU ALL FOR READING … PLEASE PARTICIPATE, INVITING ALL MY DEAR BLOGGERS 👏🙂🏆

An Exhibition

An exhibition conducted by a group of school 👫👬👭students on few months before. It was based on GREEN SQUARD🌴🌳🌲🌱🌵🍀- To protect the environment and with the concept of reuse, recycle and redefine life.I’m sharing some of the pics here…..📷

Its so colorful…. 🙂
Yellow…White…Pink…Violet..Green..Red 🙂
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Reuse,Recycle and Redefine Life 👏
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Lit ones!!!
Wowww !!!
Beautiful🌷🌸🌺🌼🌻 !
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Thank you for visiting my blog…. 🙂 !!!!