Wordless

Empty life, loaded memories

Words seems like wordless

In the air, fluttered butterflies

On the earth ,I’m a flightless bird

I called your name, gone with the mind

I can’t catch it again without your help

World upside down, Silence broken

Ears closed, so many wordless days

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Reminiscence

Pic Courtesy : Google Image
Memories never fades away
Make an effort to obliterate
Yet get stronger in times
In a flash light, mind captured
A sequence of shining memories 
Some are frozen, some are locked
Burning dreams sets on fire....

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For a better relationship

I grabbed all those points by my own personal positive and negative experience.I won’t say that mine is perfect, definitely there are many drawbacks not only for me for everyone in this world. A relationship became perfect once they avoid the rules and regulations and free up the minds.

LOVE COVER UP MULTITUDE OF SINS, NOTHING BEYOND LOVE. If true love is there, everything follows eventually.No special preparation needed, no need to be careful in your relationship, just open up everything to each other.

I would be glad, if you share some more points from your own experience.

1) Pay attention to your partner's opinions
2) Ask and share questions openly rather assumptions.
3) Be a supporter and motivator for each other.
4) Equality , avoid gender discrimination 
5) Don't store any doubts, speak up openly
6) Use WE instead of I
7) Proper communications
8)Avoid misunderstanding through conversations
9) Apologize quickly
10)Take away ego, pride and Jealousy
11) Honor each other
12) While fighting,take initiative to resolve
13) Share your feelings and emotions
14) Share when you're feeling down
15)Avoid hidden thoughts instead open up thoroughly
16)Love each other the most
17)Reduce the expectations otherwise it will become an investment.
18) Avoid privacy conversation with others, discuss everything with eachother.
19) No boundaries
20) Frankness
21) Reduce formalities
22) Accept just the way he / she is ...and accept good suggestions for self development.
23) Compromise each other
24) Never pull anyone to your relationship.
25) Go for a walk, share the interests, outdoor activities and entertainments
26) Be good friends
27) Avoid inferiority and superiority complex
28) If your partner is ready to listen, never bring the fights in front of others.
29) Reduce arguments.
30) Spend more time with èach other.
31) Taking up responsibilities equally
32) Never split work for husband and wife.
33) Accept each ones weakness and compensate each other.
34) Maintain strong bond
35) Give confidence to each other, never discourage.
36) Share your bad thoughts, troubles everything.
37) Enjoy every love quarrels, small and beautiful moments of togetherness
38) Accept the mistakes and share with each other.
39) Discuss your memories, past, future,
ambitions, dreams, strength and weaknesses
40)Faith, trust and understanding- Love keeps no record of wrongs.


©️ Athira Praveen


	

Frustration

I'm yours.. You're mine
An entry distorted everything
You left me without a thought
My unlistened voice never heard
All magical moments, lost in time
I'm a liar for you, without a cause
All my words became fallacies
Emotions that I could not hide
Find a space in my cheeks
I can't fill the empty space now
I filled with love and happy memories

©️ Athira Praveen 

Memories : My Dance Anklet

My dance anklet / Chilanka : A foot trinket with small bells its commonly used  for dancing

For more than 12 years
You are with me
You are my first and last one
Now you looks so tired
Since you are sitting idle
And the straps are torn now
Your sound is low too
Since some bells are gone,
Some green particles
Entered here and there
I know you are always ready
To get into my ankles
But I rarely preferred you
Now you are too heavy for me
I likes you….
But I’m away now
Will come back to you (ONLY)
Once its favoured my decision!!!