Free verse 31 – I wish

I wish to see a human
A human with humanity
A human without cruelty
A human with generous love
A human without hatred
A human with kindness
A human without ego
A human with integrity
A human without pride
A human with self-respect
A human without narcissism
A human with empathy
A human without sympathy
A human with loyalty
A human without pessimism
A human with compassion
A human without favoritism
A human with perseverance

©️Athira 2021 | All Rights Reserved

For a better relationship

I grabbed all those points by my own personal positive and negative experience.I won’t say that mine is perfect, definitely there are many drawbacks not only for me for everyone in this world. A relationship became perfect once they avoid the rules and regulations and free up the minds.

LOVE COVER UP MULTITUDE OF SINS, NOTHING BEYOND LOVE. If true love is there, everything follows eventually.No special preparation needed, no need to be careful in your relationship, just open up everything to each other.

I would be glad, if you share some more points from your own experience.

1) Pay attention to your partner's opinions
2) Ask and share questions openly rather assumptions.
3) Be a supporter and motivator for each other.
4) Equality , avoid gender discrimination
5) Don't store any doubts, speak up openly
6) Use WE instead of I
7) Proper communications
8)Avoid misunderstanding through conversations
9) Apologize quickly
10)Take away ego, pride and Jealousy
11) Honor each other
12) While fighting,take initiative to resolve
13) Share your feelings and emotions
14) Share when you're feeling down
15)Avoid hidden thoughts instead open up thoroughly
16)Love each other the most
17)Reduce the expectations otherwise it will become an investment.
18) Avoid privacy conversation with others, discuss everything with eachother.
19) No boundaries
20) Frankness
21) Reduce formalities
22) Accept just the way he / she is ...and accept good suggestions for self development.
23) Compromise each other
24) Never pull anyone to your relationship.
25) Go for a walk, share the interests, outdoor activities and entertainments
26) Be good friends
27) Avoid inferiority and superiority complex
28) If your partner is ready to listen, never bring the fights in front of others.
29) Reduce arguments.
30) Spend more time with èach other.
31) Taking up responsibilities equally
32) Never split work for husband and wife.
33) Accept each ones weakness and compensate each other.
34) Maintain strong bond
35) Give confidence to each other, never discourage.
36) Share your bad thoughts, troubles everything.
37) Enjoy every love quarrels, small and beautiful moments of togetherness
38) Accept the mistakes and share with each other.
39) Discuss your memories, past, future,
ambitions, dreams, strength and weaknesses
40)Faith, trust and understanding- Love keeps no record of wrongs.


©️ Athira Aparna


BC

The word “Busy” felts like something fabricated sometimes.In this world none have time for anything they are running behind all things that contemplate to be valuable but its not.Of course, busy should be there in lives but it could be well managed by ourselves then we can see heaven around us. I would like to add certain true occurrence that made me to write here.

Yesterday I went for a shopping like to buy some groceries, vegetables and all.I spotted everything throughout as an artificial/ exaggerated. They are grabbing the items with #greediness by pushing and disturbing others with their trolleys.However all those commodities kept there are for sales only but the way they are taking seems to be so strange.They are not seeing all those items for first time but the way looks like to be, its stereotyped !!!!

Next I noticed the way they looks others..Some looks each other with envy, I hope they won’t know each other before but still their eyes seems to be resentment.I’m not telling that everyone are like that but majority are alike.Behind all sinful thoughts~ #Lusts, #gluttony,#greed/ #covetous, #anger, #Jealous, #Pride, #deception, #lies, #corruptions,#love of money,#cursing someone,#disobedience,#adultery, #gossiping, #spreading rumors,#speaking evils to others, #boasting, #flattering,#hypocrisy,#craftiness,#drunkenness, #sorcery,#gambling, #materialism,#love of power, #flirting.. all those are negatives…ohhh…Definitely we all come across to all those one or another but for sure avoiding all those will make us feel better / make us a better human.Many thinks that its all common humanitarian nature and whats wrong with all those???? Yeah,humans always have a sinful nature that tempts them to do focus on wrongs mostly rather than truth!Non is perfect in this world everyone are with certain imperfections, but trying to sort out its matters.

Follow the Heart

Yes..I found it when I started to follow my heart…no matter how harder the situations, the love will encourage each other.It never focus on any negative thoughts like ego, pride, jealousy, boasting instead it only remains in pure love that truly comes from bottom of the heart.

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