Missing Real Faces

I can’t find a real face here
Faces smiling, hidden eyes
Truth denied, only illusions
Where can I open up my mouth ?
Where can I find a real friend
Better to shut the mouth
Talk to self, who trusts

©️Athira 2021 | All Rights Reserved

For a better relationship

I grabbed all those points by my own personal positive and negative experience.I won’t say that mine is perfect, definitely there are many drawbacks not only for me for everyone in this world. A relationship became perfect once they avoid the rules and regulations and free up the minds.

LOVE COVER UP MULTITUDE OF SINS, NOTHING BEYOND LOVE. If true love is there, everything follows eventually.No special preparation needed, no need to be careful in your relationship, just open up everything to each other.

I would be glad, if you share some more points from your own experience.

1) Pay attention to your partner's opinions
2) Ask and share questions openly rather assumptions.
3) Be a supporter and motivator for each other.
4) Equality , avoid gender discrimination
5) Don't store any doubts, speak up openly
6) Use WE instead of I
7) Proper communications
8)Avoid misunderstanding through conversations
9) Apologize quickly
10)Take away ego, pride and Jealousy
11) Honor each other
12) While fighting,take initiative to resolve
13) Share your feelings and emotions
14) Share when you're feeling down
15)Avoid hidden thoughts instead open up thoroughly
16)Love each other the most
17)Reduce the expectations otherwise it will become an investment.
18) Avoid privacy conversation with others, discuss everything with eachother.
19) No boundaries
20) Frankness
21) Reduce formalities
22) Accept just the way he / she is ...and accept good suggestions for self development.
23) Compromise each other
24) Never pull anyone to your relationship.
25) Go for a walk, share the interests, outdoor activities and entertainments
26) Be good friends
27) Avoid inferiority and superiority complex
28) If your partner is ready to listen, never bring the fights in front of others.
29) Reduce arguments.
30) Spend more time with èach other.
31) Taking up responsibilities equally
32) Never split work for husband and wife.
33) Accept each ones weakness and compensate each other.
34) Maintain strong bond
35) Give confidence to each other, never discourage.
36) Share your bad thoughts, troubles everything.
37) Enjoy every love quarrels, small and beautiful moments of togetherness
38) Accept the mistakes and share with each other.
39) Discuss your memories, past, future,
ambitions, dreams, strength and weaknesses
40)Faith, trust and understanding- Love keeps no record of wrongs.


©️ Athira Aparna


			

My Parents

I took few minutes…Its not like lack of words or any lack of sequences ..I have soo much to write about my dearest Pappa and Amma but the confusion was based on where to start and what to say about them since I can’t limit those in my words.These are some words that comes to my mind initially and I don’t wish to edit it more and more so just sharing as it is…

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Two people hold my hands together
Tightly out of love
My eyes opened first to see them
My words came out of you
My tears are fire on your heart
My smile rejoice on you
I found the word trust here
It doesn’t matter wherever I go
Their eyes look at me
It doesn’t matter wherever I stay
Their hearts’ are closer to me.


©️Athira 2019| All Rights Reserved

Putting Virtue into Practice

Yesterday I had a conversation with my colleague, its a common talk we used to have…We shared some common incidents related with trust,compassion love,honesty,courteous…It lacks today.Its easy to talk but its really difficult to implement the virtues into practice.”The WORD is LIFE”-Its a stairway to heaven,you can find the virtue inside the WORD.

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